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CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md

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 - No transphobia.
 - No homophobia/queerphobia.
 - No sexism.
-- No ableism.
+- No ableism. (This includes calling software or people "stupid" or"dumb")
 - No islamophobia, antisemitism, or hatred to anyone based on their religion or lack thereof.
 - No classism.
 - No fascism.
@@ -80,6 +80,8 @@ We do not allow people to debate strikes or bans either for themselves or on beh
 
 # Be kind or be gone
 
+Above all, we want you to be kind and professional. Here are some explicit, though non-exhaustive rules:
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 1. Do **NOT** use this repo as a witch hunting device in any direction. You may not reach out on repos, forums, social media, reddit, messaging apps, etc, especially not in a rude way, to maintainers of other repos to harass them and threaten them, especially not with this list. Doing so will result in a ban.
 
 2. Do **NOT** mention this list *at all* when reaching out to a project to discuss AI in any way. It only results in putting the maintainers of that project on the defensive, and then the maintainers of *this* repo need to deal with the fallout of that. If you need help with asking for a No AI Policy, consider checking out our [No AI Request Template doc](https://codeberg.org/ethical-foss/open-slopware/src/branch/main/NO_AI_REQUEST_TEMPLATE.md#tips-for-success). You are also free to copy and paste anything from the [Why not LLMs](./why_not_llms.md) file.
@@ -105,7 +107,7 @@ We do not allow people to debate strikes or bans either for themselves or on beh
 
 This repo is specifically meant for identifying LLM usage in other projects, and coordinating on alternatives. You can also come here to ask others to please help you in chatting with another repo maintainer to sway them away from AI usage, but you need to do all of it *with kindness*. We have no interest in a rage feedback atmosphere here and won't tolerate it. Please consider your words, and the tone they project, before you hit send.
 
-Anyone found not being kind will be asked to be better, once. Do not debate if what you said was rude or use that opportunity to nitpick this Code of Conduct.
+When asked to be better, do not use that opportunity to debate if what you said was rude or nitpick this Code of Conduct.
 
 ## Inclusive Language
 
@@ -135,7 +137,9 @@ Some example nouns you can use if you don't know the gender of someone:
 
 ### Alt Text
 
-Please provide alt text descriptions for any images you post. This is so that users that are blind or low vision know what is being posted as their screenreaders can read it aloud. This is also useful for people who speak other languages so that they can translate any text from the screenshot and understand context. If you don't provide alt text after being asked to, we will count that as a warning, and if you still fail to do so, it will be a strike. We make exceptions if you yourself have a disability preventing you from doing so. Please kindly ask that someone else provide alt text for you, and when they do, please update your image's alt text. (*You do not need to disclose your disability.* It is fine to ask others to provide alt text for you for ANY reason.)
+Please provide alt text descriptions for any images you post. This is so that users that are blind or low vision know what is being posted as their screenreaders can read it aloud. This is also useful for people who speak other languages, so that they can translate any text from the screenshot and understand context. If you don't provide alt text after being asked to, we will count that as a warning, and if you still fail to do so, it will be a strike.
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+We make exceptions if you have a disability preventing you from providing alt text. In that instance, please kindly ask that someone else provide alt text for you, and when they do, please update your image's alt text. (*You do not need to disclose your disability.* It is fine to ask others to provide alt text for you for ANY reason.)
 
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