make it clear that we don't want people reaching out offline without consent (#514)

We shouldn't have to add this, but after it happening a few times, we need to be explicit.

Reviewed-on: https://codeberg.org/small-hack/open-slopware/pulls/514
Reviewed-by: Max <cloudymax@noreply.codeberg.org>

CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md

@@ -65,6 +65,8 @@ We're going to do a 2 strike rule here with an optional warning. You are out on
 
 - Do **NOT** use this repo as a witch hunting device in any direction. You may not reach out on social media, reddit, messaging apps, etc, especially not in a rude way, to maintainers of other repos to harass them and threaten them with this list. Doing so will result in a ban.
 
+- Please do not reach out to the maintainers or collaborators of this repo anywhere but this repo specifically (unless they have given explicit permission to do so). We do not operate our personal email or fediverse accounts as extensions of this repo and will not take feedback there. We need a proper work life balance. Please respect that.
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 This repo is specifically meant for identifying LLM usage in other projects, and coordinating on alternatives. You can also come here to ask others to please help you in chatting with another repo maintainer to sway them away from AI usage. But you need to do all of it *with kindness*. We have no interest in a rage feedback atmosphere here and won't tolerate it. Please consider your words before you hit send.
 
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