Support sqlite3.connect(autocommit=False) connections too

Database() now accepts all three Python transaction handling modes and
behaves identically in each. For autocommit=False connections - where
the driver holds an implicit transaction open at all times - the
library tracks transaction ownership itself:

- A new _explicit_transaction flag distinguishes transactions opened
  with begin()/atomic() from the driver's implicit one, exposed as a
  new db.in_transaction property (conn.in_transaction is always True
  in this mode)
- begin() claims the driver's implicit transaction instead of
  executing BEGIN, which the driver would reject; BEGIN/COMMIT/
  ROLLBACK passed to db.execute() are routed through begin()/commit()/
  rollback()
- Writes outside a user transaction commit the implicit transaction
  immediately, preserving the library's auto-commit contract
- Row-returning statements outside a transaction fetch eagerly and
  commit, so the implicit read transaction does not hold a shared
  lock that blocks writes from other connections
- PRAGMA and VACUUM run in temporary driver autocommit mode
  (ensure_autocommit_on() now flips conn.autocommit), since PRAGMAs
  are silently ignored and VACUUM refused inside the implicit
  transaction

A new pytest --sqlite-autocommit-false option runs the entire suite
in this mode, wired into CI alongside --sqlite-autocommit. Tests that
asserted on conn.in_transaction or wrote through db.conn without
committing now use the mode-aware library API instead.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Fable 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>
Claude-Session: https://claude.ai/code/session_01PFkrS2nuP8mo1jmT594VCd

.github/workflows/test.yml

@@ -40,7 +40,9 @@ jobs:
         pytest -v
     - name: Run autocommit tests just on 3.14/Ubuntu
       if: matrix.os == 'ubuntu-latest' && matrix.python-version == '3.14'
-      run: pytest --sqlite-autocommit
+      run: |
+        pytest --sqlite-autocommit
+        pytest --sqlite-autocommit-false
     - name: run mypy
       run: mypy sqlite_utils tests
     - name: run flake8